This might be long but I do need advice. This is for MY and MY SONS future please read i need advice plz?

I have posted this up before but i want more answers. I am 24 and I met my bf and ago 20. At age 21 I moved in with him. We lived together for almost 2 yrs and ended up having our son August 2008. My parents never liked my bf b/c he is Mexican and I’m Armenian. When I lived with my bf my parents and I didn’t see each other and spoke a couple of times and always argued when we did speak. So November 2008 my parents finally decided to see me and met their grandson for the first time and the next visit they decided they wanted to meet my bf. After a month of speaking to my parents (without thinking and I’m stupid for doing this) I moved in with my parents without notifying my bf. I grabbed my stuff and left. It’s like my parents brainwashed me in a month.The reason I wanted to move out was b/c we were in credit card debt’s and he wasn’t making good money even though he was working but we love each other too much. And I was working also. After I moved in with my parents house I had to quit my job to take care of my son and b/c my job was very close to his house and my parents didn’t want that. I have been living with my parents since Dec. 2008 and I hate it. I have been so depressed living here. I have kept in contact with my bf and have been seeing each other often. When I moved to my parents house my parents told me that when my sons dad comes to visit his son I wasn’t allowed to take him outside my dad would take my son outside for my sons dad to see him b/c they wanted me to get over him but until now we love each other so much and really want to be with one another. He is looking for a 2nd job in order to better support me and my son and wants me to go back to him and I do too but I’m just so afraid of my parents getting mad and my familys reputation.two days ago my parents told me to choose either them or my sons dad. I didn’t choose my sons dad b/c I felt like if I move in with him he wont be able to financially support us but living with my parents has really affected my health. Im so depressed, tired, and lost so much weight that it’s affecting me. I haven’t talked to my bf for 2 days and he constantly sends me emails and calls my house but my brother picks up the phone so my bf hangs up. My parents are controlling my life so much. They tell me that everytime I leave the house I need to tell them exactly where im going, with who and the time I will return back home. I disagree with them but they said that if I disagree I am more then welcome to leave the house. I don’t know what to do. Im just waiting to get a job and for my bf to get a second job to be able to have our own place. He is currently living with his sister and his sister has told me numerous times that I am welcome in their home and don’t need to pay rent and once we save up we could get our own place. I don’t know what to do. I feel so depressed and cry hysterically every day. Any advice will help. Im tired of my parents bullsh** My parents want me to find another guy and get married but im not sure if I can. My parents don’t want me to meet with my sons dad in order for him to see our son. And when my bf does come to see our son about 15-20 minutes later my dad quickly takes my son away from his dad and says that he needs to eat or sleep. He says that so he wont see his son. My parents don’t want my son to build a relationship with his dad and have been trying to push my bf away from his son.The holidays are hard. my sons bday is coming and i know my parents wont let my bf take his son to have a bday for him. That’s his dad how can they do that. Plz help omg im soo depressed and cant stop crying.